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Teresa’s Conjecture:

The Model for Eleanor in

“The Lament of Tasso

 

In the first volume of this e-journal I presented a case for the possibility of a romance between Byron and Charlotte, the Princess of Wales between 1813 and 1815.

Although the Princess mentions Byron and his poetry several times in letters to their mutual friend, Margaret Mercer Elphinstone, there is no record in any of Byron’s letters or journals of his having met the Princess or any mention of her before the report of her death in childbirth in 1817 reached him in Venice. She does, intriguingly, appear at the climax of his autobiographical poem, Childe Harold’s Pilgrimage. She appears in the poem in stanza 167, as a spirit rising from the abyss.  A few stanzas later, speaking as the poet, he says that he wishes that:

. . . the Desert were my dwelling place,

With one fair Spirit for my minister

That I might all forget the human race,

And, hating no one, love but only her[i]

 

There had been a set of oddly concurrent circumstances in the lives of Byron and Princess Charlotte including, for each of them, a mysterious love affair.  Historians and biographers have not conclusively determined either who it was that Byron loved in 1813-1814 or who was Charlotte’s love at that time.  It was rumoured to be the Duke of Devonshire, her cousin the Duke of Cumberland or Prince Frederick of Prussia. Whoever it was, he had given the Princess a ring with a heart shaped turquoise that she treasured.[ii]

There is one more piece to this puzzle after the poetic reference to the Princess by Byron in April 1817, a suggestive remark made years later in a letter.  This was in Italian and written two years after poor Princess Charlotte, with her still born son, was in her grave.

Byron had left England in April 1816 to live the rest of his life in warmer and more comfortable lands.  Whoever his “perverse passion” of the summer of 1813 had been, he had left that love behind with all others in the collapse of his fortunes and family life.

His older half sister, Augusta Leigh, assumed to have been that lover by many contemporaries and later biographers, was increasingly under the control of his wife, Annabella, Lady Byron, from whom he was legally separated.  She had agreed to show all Byron’s letters to Annabella and had finally acquiesced in her jealous demand that she not receive him if he ever returned to England.

In Italy, Byron at first settled down into a comfortable and convenient relationship with the wife of his landlord but soon expanded his sexual activities to the point of dissipation.  After a year or two of living as an embodiment of Don Juan, he was disillusioned.  He wrote one of his most memorable short poems to Tom Moore about the state of his psyche on February 28th, 1817:

 

So, we’ll go no more a’roving

  So late into the night

Though the heart be still as loving

  And the moon be still as bright.

 

For the sword outwears it’s sheath,

  And the soul wears out the breast,

And the heart must pause to breathe,

  And love itself have rest.

 

Though the night was made for loving,

  And the day returns too soon,

Yet we’ll go no more a’roving

  By the light of the moon.[iii]

 

Yet, he roved on. 

Just as he had become utterly weary of this life he met the Contessa Teresa Giucciolli, a nineteen year old, newly married beauty with a husband nearing sixty.  She was on the look out for a lover.  A ‘cavaliere servente’ was an accepted, even an essential attribute of a high born Italian lady.  As he put it in a letter to John Cam Hobhouse on the 6th of April 1819, a week after meeting her. “I have hopes Sir – hopes.  What shall I do ! I am in love  - and tired of promiscuous concubinage - & have now an opportunity of settling for life.” [iv] 

He had found his last attachment.

On June 15th 1819, Byron, now most deeply in love, answered a letter from Teresa.  He loved her, of course, for her voluptuous beauty, but also for her educated interest in poets and poetry.

My love: I speak of Love and you reply with “Tasso” – I write about you and you ask me about Eleanor. If you want to make me to become more crazy than him - I assure you that you have the chance of succeeding.  In fact my Dear your research seems superfluous, you know my story at least in part - and even without this you can imagine that in order to describe strong passions one must have experienced them.  One of these days... when we are alone - I will tell you in person whether or not your conjecture about the original of the portrait is based on truth... answering your question if E[leanor] was the etc. etc.[v][vi]

 

 In Byron’s “The Lament of Tasso”, that Teresa had read in translation, Tasso  addresses the woman he loves from his cell in a mad-house.  He had been committed to it  by the Duke of Ferrara because he loved the Princess Eleanor.  He is resigned to his fate because: “ A Princess was no love mate for a Bard”.

Byron expresses the poet’s loneliness and desolation that a socially inappropriate love had separated him from society and his family.  He refuses, however to disclose his love or to repudiate it.

Byron, writing his letter in Italian, wrote “la etc. etc.”, for “the etc. etc” If Teresa had asked about his wife or his sister he would have written “mia etc etc”.   Why couldn’t he answer her question in writing? If he had taken (unalike as the circumstances of the relationships were) Lady Frances Webster or Lady Oxford or Lady Caroline Lamb as model for Eleanor why not write about it to Teresa in Italian, in 1819?  What could require that level of circumspection? Frances Webster was the object of scandal as Wellington’s mistress, Lady Oxford wore Byron’s miniature around her neck and Caroline Lamb had written Glenarvon.  Who could it have been whose love separated Byron from society yet required complete secrecy? If it was Augusta, would he discuss it with Teresa?

What was Teresa’s conjecture about the identity of the woman whose love, inappropriate and devastating, had been the model in Byron’s life for the love of Tasso’s Lament? He wrote to her “you know my story at least in part”.  What had he told her?  Byron didn’t  admit, in writing, who had been Princess Eleanor’s model.  Teresa’s letter is lost, and with  it her question, which he answered in person, so we can only guess - and sigh. 

The Royal scandal of 1813, if there was one, remains Byron’s secret. 

 

I was indeed delirious in my heart 

To lift my love so lofty as thou art;[vii] 

That thou wert beautiful and I not blind, 

Hath been the sin which shuts me from mankind;[viii] 

And yet my love without ambition grew; 

I knew thy state, my station, and I knew 

A Princess was no love mate for a bard

I told it not, I breathed it not, it was 

Sufficient to its self, its own reward[ix]

 

The last words are Byron’s:

 

. . . you know my story at least in part - and even without this you can imagine that in order to describe strong passions one must have experienced them[x]

 

By the bye - - - the Princess’s name was Charlotte Augusta.

 

 

References

 

Aspinall, A. 1949. Letters of Princess Charlotte; 1811 – 1817, Home and Van Thal: London

Byron. “The Lament of Tasso”

-------         “Childe Harold’s Pilgrimage”

Marchand, L. A. 1973-1979 Byron’s Letters and Journals, Vols. 5,6. Murray: London


 


Byronic Calendars

 

April, May and June

1814

 

 

April 1814

 

Sun

Mon

Tue

Wed

Thu

Fri

Sat

 

 

Where he is

Who he loves

What he is writing

What he is doing

Where he plans to go

How he feels

 

 

 

 

 

1

2, Albany

 

to Harriette Wilson: I am not unaquainted with your name or your beauty . . .but I am not the person whom you would like

2

to Six Mile Bottom

Augusta

 

To Murray: the last ed[ition] of C[ilde] H[arold] - is very unpleasant to me

3

Six Mile Bottom

Augusta

To France: Mr. Claughton is expected in town daily . . . urge the indispensible necessity of his fulfilling . . . the terms . . . his address will be  . . . the Grecian Coffee House

4

Six Mile Bottom

Augusta

 

 

5

Six Mile Bottom

Augusta

 

6

Six Mile Bottom

Augusta

 

7

to London

Augusta

 

 

8

2, Albany

Augusta

To Ly. Melbourne: I left all my relations, at least my niece and her Mamma very well – L[eigh] was in Yorkshire - & I regret not having seen him of course very much

I swallowed the D—l in ye. shape of a collar of brawn

 

 

9

2, Albany

To Tom Moore: . . . I have been and am, in very tolerable love; - but of that hereafter , as it may be. I have been boxing . . . with Jackson for this last month daily.  I have also been drinking – with three friends at the Cocoa Tree, from six  . . . unto five in the matin.  We clareted and champagned till two – then supped, and . . . a kind of regency punch composed of madeira, brandy and green tea,  . . . but I mean to pull up and marry, - if anyone will have me

10

2, Albany

Ode to Napoleon Buonaparte

11

2, Albany

To Murray: it will be best not to put my name to our Ode but you mat say openly as you like that it is mine

12

2, Albany

To Murray: a most scurrilous attack on us in the Antijacobin Review

To John Cam Hobhouse: my Parisian scheme is knocked up

13

2, Albany

 

 

14

2, Albany

 

 

15

2, Albany

 

 

16

2, Albany

 

17

2, Albany

To Murray: I send you Hunt with his ode – the thoughts are good – but the expressions buckram except here and there

 

18

2, Albany

Annabella

To Ly. Melbourne: I have as yet no intention of serving my soverign “in the  North

A friend of mine left town for Paris this morning

 

19

2, Albany

 

 

20

2, Albany

to Annabella Milbanke: it gave me much pleasure to hear from you again

To Tom Moore: In the mean time I have bought a macaw and a parrot . . . I box and fence daily, and go out very little

To Tom Moore: My departure for the continent depends . . .  on the incontinent.  I have two country invitations

 

21

2, Albany

 

22

2, Albany

 

 

 

23

2, Albany

To Murray: in Rochester’s poems mention is made of a play with the like delicate appellation

24

2, Albany

to Ldy Melbourne:[a dash made into a cross] tonight I am going with your Chevalier of Troy to the Prin[ce]ss of W[ale]s to dine & dawdle away the Evening

 

26

2, Albany

to Murray: If I ever did anything original it was in C[il}d[e] H[arol]d – which I prefer to the other things after the 1st week – yesterday I reread E[nglish] B[ards] – (baiting the malice) it is the best

 

 

27

2, Albany

 

 

 

28

2, Albany

 

 

 

 

 

30

2, Albany

My A

to Ldy Melbourne:: her subsequent “abandon. . . that women are much more attached than men . . . I think you must allow mine – to be a very extraordinary person in point of talent . . . my feelings toward her –good and diabolical. . . my heart always alights on the nearest perch

there is a party at

Ldy J[ersey]’s on Monday and on Wednesday . . .  Tuesday . . . I want to see Kean in Richard again

 


May 1814

 

Sun

Mon

Tue

Wed

Thu

Fri

Sat

1

2, Albany

My A

To Ldy Melbourne: she surely is very clever  - and not only so - but in some things of good judgement . . . excepting our most one tremendous fault – I know her to be in point of temper - & goodness of heart almost unequalled . . . she is in truth a very loveable woman . . . it is indeed a very triste and extraordinary business

Tomorrow I am asked to Ly Jersey’s  and on Wednesday again – Tuesday I go to Kean & dine after the play with Ld. Rancliffe – and on Friday there is Mrs. Hope’s . . . Mrs Damer with whom I weep - not to dine

2

2, Albany

My A

 

3

2, Albany

My A

To Miss Mercer Elphinstone: I send you the Arnaout garments . . . if you like the dress –keep it – I shall be very glad to get rid of it – as it reminds me of one or two things I don’t wish to remember

4

2, Albany

My A

To Tom Moore: Rancliffe’s board . . . ought it not to have been a dinner?

5

2, Albany

My A

To Tom Moore: Do you go to the Lady Cahir’s this even?

6

2, Albany

 

 

7

2, Albany

 

 

8

2, Albany

To Tom Moore: was not Iago perfection . . . at present poesy is not my passion predominant

9

2, Albany

Augusta

Dearest A – I enclose you Hammersley’s answer – I have money at Hoare’s & more coming soon

 

10

2, Albany

 

11

2, Albany

 

 

12

2, Albany

 

 

13

2, Albany

 

 

14

2, Albany

Annabella

 

 

15

2, Albany

16

2, Albany

 

 

17

2, Albany

 

18

2, Albany

To Ly Melbourne: I have not written to-day  - & shall weigh my words when I write to - - - tomorrow . . . I am trying to fall in love

I am elected to Watier’s – shall I resume play that will be a change

19

2, Albany

 

 

20

2, Albany

to Tom Moore: I suppose you will be at Lady Jersey’s.  I am going earlier with Hobhouse. . . . tomorrow we sup and see Kean

21

2, Albany

 

 

 

22

2, Albany

 

23

2, Albany

24

2, Albany

25

2, Albany

 

26

2, Albany

 

 

27

2, Albany

 

 

28

2, Albany

to Ly Melbourne: a wrathful epistle from C demanding letters – pictures – and all kinds of gifts